This reminds me of that song with a father and son If the words are not right please forgive me
Cats in the cradle with a silver spoon
little boy blue and the man on the moon
when you coming home dad I don`t know when
but we`ll get together then , Dad
You know we`ll have a good time then
If you remember in the song the father has no time for his son because of work commitments . Then the son follows in his dads steps and has no time for his father .
Ray you have been given a great opportunity to spend some time with the kids . They ARE going to grow up .