Well I have a problem and hope that someone could point me in the right direction. I can't go into great detail but I received my back injury at work from a product that failed. (will explain at later date, suite is still pending.) So, workman's comp has paid for my time missed at work and my medical expenses which have come to approx $800,000. Workman's comp has also agreed to pay any and all future medical payments as it relates to this particular injury
, It was never my intention to sue anyone until I realized just how injured I was and how it gets worse year after year and will continue to do so. So, following advice from a client, we went to see an attorney and he pointed out the obvious, I had a severe injury, I would continue to deteriorate as I age, and when it gets so bad that I'm unable to work, it will be too late to seek compensation. So we filed the law suites 5 years ago and they (the defendants) are ready to sit down at a mediation and try to resolve this thing. Now, we are talking about a substantial amount of money here not just a couple of grand. Now, I've heard all of the lotto winners blowing their winnings and such but let me give my perspective on this. I will walk into this meeting employed and making ends meet and I will leave the meeting that way so anything that happens behind those doors will be a blessing and a security for our future. With that being said, we are scared to death because our cup has always been less than full and our cup will soon runneth over
. I didn't get to go to college but did acquire my paramedic license and reached Interior Firefighter II from the SC Fire Academy as a teenager but that career didn't pan out. So, we've worked hard for everything that we have. Our only bill is our no interest mortgage (buying the house from family) and the normal stuff, insurance, gas, childcare and so on. I earn money on my own to support my hunting habit and NEVER take $ from the family budget. I did get some money from the State for my partial disability rating and we chose to buy a small piece of real estate and rent to out to the Governments HUDD program so I don't have to run down a tenant. So, what I'm trying to say is that we're going to come into a good deal of money soon that we need to find someone to help us manage it. My children WILL go to college, period. I do need a new truck that is handicapped accessible but other than that, we don't know what to do to protect ourselves and the money. So any suggestions would be a blessing.
As far as our kids, they get a paycheck just like we do
. Being handicapped, there are things that I cannot do so, instead of paying a stranger to mow the lawn, clean the vehicles and other chores that the man of the house is usually responsible for, we pay Tyler to do. Brianna gets an allowance as well. We also reward the kids for good grades. Evidently what we're doing with the kids works because Tyler has saved up a couple hundred dollars and doesn't touch it unless he has to, (he bought sissy a beautiful valentines gift) .
Anyhow, that's where we are in life and as I said, any reccomendations would be greatly appreciated because we've never had anything in our lives except for each other
Ok, I'm done