O/T Personal Messages

[FJB]

I hope that this is the right place to post this question, if it is not i'm sorry. I have been trying to pm someone and the message hangs in my outbox for a few minutes. Is there a way to send it instantly? Thanking you in advance. (( I looked at all the settings that i could find))

[munch]

i thought i had a prob amd was told it stays in the outbox until it is opened by the person you sent it to .not 100% but that maybe what you are seeing munch

[FJB]

I hope that is the answer. It does make sense. Thanks