GaryM wrote:Lost my dad Dec. 16. He was a great guy. Never let us down, not even once. My brother and I are heading to mom's Sunday to split up dad's gun collection. I'm excited but sad at the same time. Gary
So sorry to hear that Gary, my heart goes out to you and to all of the family. I hope and pray for you and your brother that you both can split up that gun collection and have no conflicts with each other and remain a family. Because I know that is what your Dad would want.
When my Mom died almost three years ago, I was left in charge of her estate as the Executor of the Will. All of the other siblings knew what was on the will, and where and who was going to be receiving all of the estate for 5 or 6 years. Everything was alright until Mom passed on. Mom had made sure before she was sick that she gave everyone of us what she wanted us to have and the rest of her estate was going to my daughter, Stacey.
No sooner was Mom gone, then they forced my hand to take action with the will. I never even had a chance to properly mourn and grieve for Mom and it is still affecting me today. Two of my sisters are down right dirty snakes. They thought that they were going to take over and do whatever they wanted to. Well I put my foot down and stopped them in their tracks. I couldn't do it nicely because of the way they are. So now, we are no longer a family and with what they said and accused me of all over the internet with Facebook and all that other stuff I have disowned them as being my sisters. The night before Mom was laid to rest, they were threatening my thirteen year old daughter, Stacey, because they wanted this and that and more and more. I soon put a stop to that but it has affected my daughter, Stacey, more than we had known. She held it all in for years and now within the last few months is opening up to us and she is and has been struggling deeply with all the crap that went on. And for what, nothing actually, the Estate of my Mom was not a rich estate. And now we have her booked to go to a Councillor who can help her with some of the issues that needs a professional help. Not only did she lose her Grandmother that she cared deeply for, but she lost two Aunts also that she cared deeply for also and they turned on her when she needed us all, and for what, a small estate. If my Mom could have come back even for one day, I know exactly what she would do to those two girls. They are so lucky that Mom couldn't come back.
If this was still the old west, I would take my shotgun and would hunt them down like the scum they are and finish them off. It breaks my heart to see hear and hear her cry because of all the crap that went on. I am sorry that I was long winded but I just felt like getting that off of my chest.
Raymond